Sexual role play is an act that some couples enjoy, while others have yet to try it. For those who have made it part of their repertoire, it's something they turn to once in a while. If you're one of those who hasn't tried it yet, Darwinescorts say that it's fine – you need to go at your own pace. This is especially true if your long-term partner is the more cautious sort.
You don't have to miss out on the fun, however; there are things you can do to help your partner see sexual role playing can be a lot of fun. Here are a few pointers to make it easier for you.
1. Talk. Discuss the scenarios with her so that she has a rough idea about what to expect. Don't just pull out a pair of handcuffs and tell her you're going to have to arrest her. She'll wonder what happened, and she may not be as willing to be restrained if you surprise her with role play.
Let her also come up with her own ideas for a role play scenario. She's likely to enjoy it more if she has some say in which scenarios you try out. It will also be a great way for you to learn more about any fantasies she may have that can be fulfilled with a role play session.
2. Start slowly. If your own scenarios seem a little too much, or you're not sure you can pull them off, go with an alternative. Choose an erotic novel and take turns reading out loud, pretending you're the main characters in the book.
As you read out loud, you're sure to come across passages where the two interact. Don't just read out the scenes when it comes to that, but re-enact them. That way, you both get used to pretending to be someone you're not, if only for a while. Then, as you both become accustomed to this, you can start being more creative and try your own scenarios.
3. Go with the basics first. You don't have to have elaborate costumes, let alone use any fancy sex toys or what have you for your first few forays into role playing. Come up with roles you'll find easy enough to slip into, with the right outfits that are just in your wardrobes. Any props you can use are likely to be found around the house or flat, too.
As you can see, the key to sexual role playing is to build things up gradually, to go at a pace that suits you both, until you both become comfortable with it. That way, you can slowly push the boundaries of your sexual comfort zone, which will lead to better sex. And if you don't have a committed partner, just search online for Darwin escorts to help you fulfil certain physical needs.